I'm just here for the good times!
toredol
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma | Woman Seeking A Man
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I've been a widow since 2012, and recently I'm wondering if things are safe: things like dating...
I'm not even sure if it's safe to open myself and my heart. I lost my dad in 2012 a month before my husband died, three years later, same time of year, my oldest child died. And three years after that, same time of year on my dad's birthday, I lost my best friend from high school.
Okay, so now I ask, is anyone even brave enough to take me on? Personally, I'm seeing myself as someone pretty decent. Obviously, at my age I don't get out of the bed every morning to dress, take a sip of coffee, then rush off to work anymore. Before I "matured" I was a newspaper reporter and a registered medical assistant. Now I take my time with that coffee, and some days I don't even get dressed.
I think I need to wake up and smell (somebody else's) coffee!
I'm not even sure if it's safe to open myself and my heart. I lost my dad in 2012 a month before my husband died, three years later, same time of year, my oldest child died. And three years after that, same time of year on my dad's birthday, I lost my best friend from high school.
Okay, so now I ask, is anyone even brave enough to take me on? Personally, I'm seeing myself as someone pretty decent. Obviously, at my age I don't get out of the bed every morning to dress, take a sip of coffee, then rush off to work anymore. Before I "matured" I was a newspaper reporter and a registered medical assistant. Now I take my time with that coffee, and some days I don't even get dressed.
I think I need to wake up and smell (somebody else's) coffee!
Sign
Cancer
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Curvy
My Height Is
5' 3 (1.6 m)
My Eyes Are
Green
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Widowed
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Lips
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is
Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These
Dog
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
'other'
I Make This Much In A Year
$30,000USD To $44,999USD
I Live
With Pet(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Trying To Quit
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Teachers Pet
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Family, Reading, Sports, Music, Tv, Internet, Dancing, Gambling, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Relaxing, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Twice on the same day:
Mid-morning coffee, chat, decide if we want Part2,a later-in-the-day meeting someplace a little louder, rowdier, more exciting!
Mid-morning coffee, chat, decide if we want Part2,a later-in-the-day meeting someplace a little louder, rowdier, more exciting!
I've Always Wanted To Try
Snow skiing in Vermont
I think I can safely assume it's not gonna happen
I think I can safely assume it's not gonna happen
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Goofy, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Other
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
Keep a sparkle in my eyes and a bright color lipstick on my mouth as I slide into home plate for the last time
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Friendly, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Sports, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Pop, Ambient, Dance
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Auto-biography, Biography, Fiction, Mystery, Sports, Romance
My Idea Of Fun Is
I love playing slots at our Indian casinos, but since I rarely get to do that, I also am happy to sit at the computer for hours reading news and human interest stories that won't make it to the evening news on TV.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Money, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
If I meet someone and I like him, you can be sure he has some of the above-mentioned traits
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Internet Buddy, Friend, Date